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Magda Pecsenye has been writing on the internet since 2003. She was Ask Moxie from 2005-2015 and won a bunch of best of parenting blogs and best of advice blogs awards. She took a break from blogging to lean in to social media, but now that social media is dying she's back blogging again. In addition to writing this blog, she writes about Good Management Practices and podcasts about the challenges and horrors of being in your 50s with her ex-husband Doug French.
...and I'm back! My friend's mother died. This mother has been mean to my friend, specifically and intentionally, for decades. Since childhood, but the meanness increased over the last ten years to a crushing level of abuse. She was meaner to my friend than to any of her other children. It makes me feel so bad for my friend, even though she's been reconciled to the fact that her mother was never going to stop the abuse and would never have a change of heart. She never had a good, or even...
Magda Pecsenye COMMUNITY CENTER Hi, friends, It's been a full two weeks since I've written anything to you! In my defense, Mercury is in retrograde yet again and that affects communication, so the backward motion of the smallest planet is surely what's made me too busy to correspond. Things just keep collapsing in onto us, and I'm sure there's more horrible crap left to come on a Friday night as it always does. Twenty years from now, young people are going to ask us why we're on edge every...
Magda Pecsenye COMMUNITY CENTER Hi, friends, I am so livid right now about Chuck Schumer literally colluding with nazis by voting for cloture that I'm shaking, but what I really want to talk about is how lucky I have been in my life. I know a lot of us have trouble with awful people we went to high school with, and there are a few I never want to see again, but I have a surprising number of friends from high school that I still talk to frequently and make an effort to see when I'm near them....